A Christian commentary: How are you perceived by others?

Take time today to address how you are perceived by others.

Are you seen as unapproachable, angry, bitter. aggressive?  Why do people see you that way?  Could you be taking steps to fix that perception?

We ALL have busy and at times hectic lives.  We need to realize others are stressed too.  Nobody wants to spend time with a prickly pear or an angry pit bull person.  People who are like this repel friendships and family.  Some never return.

The Bible gives all of us good perspective on this issue.  We read that we need to value others more than ourselves.  Is your behavior showing this?  We need to show patience, kindness, gentleness and self-control.  Would others say we respect them? value them? Affirm them?  Are our words filled with life or random violently thrown spears of hatred?

If you see a little of yourself in this description, it's not too late to make a change.  The Bible clearly teaches that out of the overflow of the heart we act.  Fill your heart with God's Word and be filled to overflowing with life giving actions and words.  You will see old relationships flourish and new people will be drawn to you.  Live free thru the Word.  No longer be bound by your tongue.

Make a change today and start experiencing life abundantly!

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